"I’ve learned that if I [talk about my relationship], people think it’s up for discussion, and our relationship isn’t up for discussion," she said of her 3-year-long relationship with British actor."If you and I were having a glass of wine right now, we’d be talking about it -- but it’s just that it goes out into the world.
That’s where the boundary is, and that’s where my life has become manageable. I really want to keep it feeling manageable."."It actually made me feel more free," Swift explained of writing about her life in her music."I’ve always had this habit of never really going into detail about exactly what situation inspired what thing, but even more so now."premiere in New York City. The heartthrob supported his lady love, who stars and wrote a song for the film.